wanted to blog so much when i read xiaxue's blog.
i mean, the entry today.
link it from my blog if u want to read.

the entry was saying about the guy she likes actually for for her girlfriends (as in girl friends).
most of the times, the girlfriends is the best friends.
and, jus becuz she wanted her buddy to know who the guy she likes and so, introduced the guy to her girlfriends.
least she expected that the guy actually fall for her girlfriends.
worst come to worst, her girlfriends actually told her that she will NOT be interested in the guy nor she will kind of flirt with the guy.
yet, her girlfriends have close contacts with the guy, act cute, adorable in front of the guy and claiming that she is NOT flirting.
oh c'mon...
even she is NOT flirting or whatsoever, she did not care about xiaxue's feelings.
what will u feel if ur friend being SO close with ur guy/girl even if there is no flirting motive?

i really wan to blog so much when i see this.
first of all, i did experience this before.
me and my friend(M) like this particular guy(CK) which i dunno why i will like him in the first place when he is stingy, small air(petty), not really handsome, not understanding and worst of all, not a gentlement.
at the beginning, M didnt know i like CK and she told me she like CK.
so i was like okay, since she know CK first, i shouldnt hold on to CK any longer.
but, liking a guy is not what u can control.
M and my action towards CK was apparently obvious.
so M eventually knew i like CK.
she didnt say anything.
one day, when CK asked M to go to CK's friends house to ton, M was surprised and excited.
she wanted someone to accompany her.
but sad to say, i have sch the next day. so she didnt ask me go.
she asked this gurl (another quite good friend of ours), K, to go.
so they went happily.
K asked M whether is it true that both of us (M and me) like CK.
M nodded her head.
Worst situation arrive.
they went to CK's friend's house and the drank wine.
they were watching tv when K, drink a mouthful of wine and KISSED CK and pass the wine to CK. she claims that it's nothing. fine.
in the night, M and CK was sleeping on the same bed.
when M return from the toilet, she saw K on the bed with CK and they were doing VERY intimate stuffs.
M was traumatized and went to the other room with the other friends.
so, CK and K end up heavy petting.
the next day, K claims that she's drank and didnt know what she is doing when obviously, she is trying to make us feel SO BAD as the guy we liked actually touched her!
M and me was really furious over this matter and we actually broke off relationship with K.
it has been a yr and more, we didnt see K nor did we contact her any longer.
this matter cannot be get rid from my thoughts.

i told most of my friends, if u think that ur friends are not trustable, u are not feeling good in introducing ur guy to ur girlfriends, DONT DO IT!
cuz u wont wan to be good introducing friends and end up suffering. i learn my lesson from that and i had nv introduced guy friends to friends whom i dun trust or girlfriends that love flirting ard, acting cute, or whatsoever to catch the guy.
every girl is a attention seeker.
or girls will not wear mini skirt walking around orchard road. girls will not put make up as if make up is FOC. or neither will the go for surgery to make them look prettier. what they did is always trying to attract guys attention.
aint that attention seeker?
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